Two of the biggest “Harry Potter” fan websites have condemned author J.K. Rowling following her publication of a controversial essay on gender identity last month.

On Wednesday, US-based sites MuggleNet and The Leaky Cauldron released a joint statement rejecting Rowling’s beliefs on transgender rights and detailing their commitment to providing a safe community where all feel welcome.

The statement comes after Rowling published an essay she had written about gender identity on her website. She immediately faced criticism and condemnation from LGBTQ+ activists, who called it “devastating.”

The fan websites said they have implemented new policies to distance themselves from the author, stating that they will no longer cover her personal endeavors (excluding her charity) and won’t feature photos or quotes from the author.

They also said they won’t be posting purchase links or links to the author’s website.

Earlier in June, several leading stars of the “Harry Potter” movie franchise spoke out, with Emma Watson writing on Twitter that: “Trans people are who they say they are and deserve to live their lives without being constantly questioned or told that they aren’t who they say they are.”

The fan sites said it was “difficult” to speak out against someone whose work they have “so long admired,” but they said that it would be wrong to not use their platforms to counteract the harm that Rowling has caused.

“Our stance is firm: Transgender women are women. Transgender men are men. Non-binary people are non-binary. Intersex people exist and should not be forced to live in the binary,” they said in their statement.

“While we don’t condone the mistreatment JKR has received for airing her opinions about transgender people, we must reject her beliefs,” they added.

MuggleNet has more than 800,000 followers on Facebook and The Leaky Cauldron has over 230,000.

CNN has reached out to J.K. Rowling’s representatives for comment.

ORLANDO, Fla. – It’s been 10 years since the Wizarding World of Harry Potter first opened at Universal Orlando.

​​The land opened to the public at Universal’s Islands of Adventure on June 18, 2010.

Some of the Harry Potter film stars—Daniel Radcliffe, Rupert Grint, Bonnie Wright, James Phelps, Oliver Phelps, Matthew Lewis and Tom Felton—made an appearance at the grand opening ceremony that morning.

Thousands of eager fans lined up for a chance to experience the magical world from the popular book series and film franchise. The line stretched all the way from Islands of Adventure to nearby Universal Studios Florida and through CityWalk. But fans waited for several hours for a chance to finally visit Hogsmeade, drink Butterbeer, and buy a wand from Ollivarnder’s Wand Shop.

Inside Hogwarts Castle, fans would find the Harry Potter and the Forbidden Journey attraction. The nearby Dueling Dragons was rethemed for the land and given the name Dragon Challenge. The ride would later be demolished to make way for Hagrid’s Magical Creatures Motorbike Adventure, which celebrated its one-year anniversary this month.

Many consider the opening of the Wizarding World of Harry Potter a game-changing moment for Universal. In the years since the land first debuted, Universal’s attendance soared. The land was also praised for its immersive environment filled with characters and live shows. Four years after the Hogsmeade section, Universal would open Diagon Alley, an expansion of the Wizarding World, at Universal Studios Florida.

Matthew Lewis may not really be a wizard, but he still sees a lot of himself in the character he portrayed in the Harry Potter franchise.

Beginning when he was just 12 years old, Lewis starred as the nervous, clumsy Gryffindor wizard Neville Longbottom in the wildly successful series of films, which ended with Harry Potter and the Deathly Hallows — Part 2 in 2011. Since then, Lewis has gone on to appear in shows like The Syndicate, Happy Valley and Girlfriends. He has also appeared in movies like Me Before You, opposite Emilia Clarke, and Terminal, alongside Margot Robbie.

However, there’s one reason it’s more uncomfortable to revisit Harry Potter than these other films.

“I find it quite difficult when too much of me starts to come through in a character,” he explained to The New York Times in a new interview. “It’s easier when I can play someone completely different, like a police officer in London or someone who’s wealthy.”

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You’ll need to wait a bit longer than expected to play Turtle Rock’s spiritual successor to Left 4 Dead. The studio and publisher Warner Bros. Interactive Entertainment have delayed the team-based zombie shooter Back 4 Blood from June 22nd to October 12th.

“Turtle Rock Studios is working hard to make Back 4 Blood the best game it can possibly be at launch and the team needs more time to do this,” according to the developer. The studio and Warner Bros. also announced there will be an open beta this summer, so you might get your hands on it early. Back 4 Blood is coming to PlayStation 4, PS5, Xbox One, Xbox Series X/S and PC.

It’s the latest in a number of delays for games published by Warner Bros. Harry Potter RPG Hogwarts Legacy and Gotham Knights, which takes place in the Batman universe, were both supposed to arrive this year. They’ll emerge in 2022 instead.

On the Sunday prior, Henry’s mother Melissa had called to ask if I would deliver a eulogy. On the way to see Nick at the Gold Coast Hospital, after visiting Tim in Brisbane that morning, I should have politely declined. Henry had closer mates who weren’t gripped by the challenge of being a stoic survivor. But I said yes.

My eulogy featured endless punchlines. “Where do you start with Henry?” I said. “He was the singer of songs, the stealer of shirts, the guy with a thousand clichés, who always got the best-looking girl, and never paid for a feed in his life.” I presented Henry the way most teenage boys want to see themselves: funny, popular, brave, uncomplicated. Henry’s friends were in stitches.

Melissa was dismayed by the abbreviations. “Henry was so much more than that, wasn’t he?” she asked, not bitterly, but sifting for reality.

What if I’d told the audience that Henry’s talent wasn’t sleeping around, but having platonic friendships with women? That he didn’t resist the friend zone like it was the Bermuda Triangle? That he was a son not afraid to say “I love you” to his mother, alone or in front of others?

The sun crept into the west and shone behind us. Mourners fanned themselves with memorial booklets, necks red and armpits wet. A guy wearing a kilt played the bagpipes and led an idling hearse past a dehydrated guard of honour. As Henry’s body was driven to the crematorium, we retreated to the school dining room for refreshments. Waiters lingered with plates of finger food.

“How are you really holding up?” asked a mate’s father. “A lot of people are going to piss in your pocket. But grief isn’t a kissing contest.”

“It’s a terrible tragedy,” I said, “but I’m just hanging in there.”

Later, alone, I wondered: Where am I hanging? I was neither hanging, nor holding up, nor falling down. Just aimlessly continuing.

Nick was officially a miracle. Doctors had predicted he’d need 24-hour care for the rest of his life, yet three weeks after the crash he was transferred from the Gold Coast to the brain injury rehabilitation unit at Toowoomba Hospital. I staged sleepovers on the La-Z-Boy beside his bed. We watched slapstick comedies. “I’m glad this happened to me,” he said, “and not you.”

“Is this your heroic way of calling me a pussy?” I asked.

“Nah. But yeah. You’re a bit of a pussy.”

“Thanks. You took a coma for the team.”

Nick and I had met as bogan 10-year-olds. St Mary’s was a budget private school for the taciturn sons of aspirational Catholics. I’d just transferred from a tiny public primary to a frightening new world of navy ties and Hail Marys. I spent the first morning tea sitting alone and trying not to cry. Nick – a fearless athlete – sat beside the chubby new kid, who had a stutter and a silent h in his strange name.

“What’s your name?” he asked.

“Lech,” I said.

“Is that short for Lechtor?“

“No. I was named after a famous P-P-Polish politician.”

“Cool,” he said, mercifully. For the next 10 minutes, my first friend tried with increasing success to make me piss myself with laughter, rather than anxiety.
Nick’s rapid improvement was bittersweet. I envisioned Tim following suit, but day after day, my best mate stayed deeply asleep in the state capital.

While we both had low voices, Tim and I generally contradicted each other. His bedroom was clean; mine was a mess. He was a Christian bricklayer. I wrote poetry in my spare time and dreamed of being a left-wing politician. A few months before the crash, we’d co-captained our house to victory at the St Mary’s swimming carnival. Tim was a gifted swimmer. I wasn’t. He’d secured crucial points in the pool while I led chants in the grandstand. After we’d raised the trophy, he’d tackled me, fully clothed, into the deep end. Lungfuls of laughter released a jet stream of bubbles through the chlorine.

Now Tim was in the high-dependence unit of a Brisbane hospital, stuck at 5 on the Glasgow Coma Scale. I took Friday off school to pay a visit.

“Timmy,” said his mum. “Lech is here to see you.” I watched Tim’s eyelids, but they stayed shut. A hose in his windpipe provided oxygen. Tubes through the nostrils filled his stomach with food. “I’ll leave you guys to have a chat,” she said. “Tell him to wake up, hey?”

I sat silently beside Tim, drowned by the strange and dangerous weight of all the painful phrases I was aching and incapable of saying to him. Wake up. My life is over without you. “Pray for him,” said his mum. “We need a miracle, Lech.”

Tim believed in God. He was morally opposed to smoking. I was an atheist like my publican father, and saw human beings as intelligent chimpanzees. Our friendship was like a Bible parable: the optimistic bricklayer and the pessimistic poet. This was always the biggest schism between us. Optimism never made sense to me.

For months, medical experts worked tirelessly to reanimate the neural pathways between Tim’s brain cells. Finally, five months after the impact, his eyelids opened. This time he was capable of answering yes to questions by blinking. “Do you remember Lech?” his mother asked on my first visit after her son woke up. Tim blinked.

Others celebrated. I feigned elation, but eye contact was painful. Tim could see the difference between us. The breakthrough ruined my delusion that once a patient wakes from a coma, they go straight back to normal. This was the new normal: painstaking improvements to a permanent brain injury.

My mateship with Nick had effectively finished by the end of high school. He recovered quickly enough to graduate. There were drunken fights and slights behind each other’s back at Schoolies Week. But those events alone couldn’t explain the depth of the indifference between us.

“You’ve changed, Lech,” he said to me one night.

“Since when?” I asked, smirking to cover the hurt.

“Since the crash,” he said. “You think you’re better than me.”

Nick was staying in Toowoomba to paint trucks for a living. I’d been accepted to study political science at the University of Queensland, a sandstone campus on the Brisbane River. The plan was to airbrush the accident from my existence, and find a safe seat for the Labor Party by the age of 30, thereby achieving my father’s dream. Nick seemed like an anchor to my uncouth youth.

He wasn’t blameless in the end of our friendship, but I let him slip away without a fight.

My reinvention in Brisbane didn’t go to plan. By the first anniversary of the crash, I was entering a nervous breakdown. Nightmares about Tim, Will, Hamish and Henry were followed by terrifying episodes of sleep paralysis. Insomnia was the only coping mechanism for bad dreams.

At the end of May, I barely slept for a week. I felt guilt about happiness; guilt about sadness; guilt about feeling guilt; guilt about not feeling guilt. Suicide seemed like the only solution to the one-size-fits-all affliction of survivor’s guilt.

At the height of my suicidal ideation, I drove back to Toowoomba for the 18th birthday party of a mate, where I drank myself into oblivion. But I couldn’t maintain the façade of the grateful survivor. I jumped back behind the wheel and sped to my mother’s house. A cop intercepted me. As a P-plater, I needed to blow 0.00. At the police station, the numbers on the machine read 0.217. In some ways, I was lucky to flame out so young.

The magistrate provided a lenient sentence, and ordered me to receive life-saving attention for depression. I quit scheming for a political career, and decided to start studying English literature and creative writing instead.

A year later, in August 2011, Dom faced the Toowoomba Magistrates Court charged with three counts of dangerous driving causing death, and two counts of dangerous driving causing grievous bodily harm. The night before the verdict, I went to Dom’s place for dinner. He told me his barrister warned him to expect a prison sentence. “Seven to eight years,” Dom said. “But that’s fine.”

It didn’t matter how many marathons I ran … I still woke choking on the bitter taste of an anguish that was both cryptic and predictable.

Forensic investigators testified that Dom was travelling at approximately 94 kilometres an hour in a 100 zone. Contrary to rumours, he was totally sober. It was an accident caused by a split-second moment of inattentiveness. The jury found Dom not guilty of all charges.

Congratulations mate, I messaged him. But the life of a survivor is an anticlimax. For the next seven years, I stayed on the same antidepressant while undergoing regular therapy with a psychologist. I ran 40 kilometres a week. It didn’t matter how many marathons I ran, though, or how readily I accepted therapy. Occasionally, I still woke choking on the bitter taste of an anguish that was both cryptic and predictable. Will, Hamish and Henry were dead. I would never see or speak to them again. We couldn’t unsee the abyss, or unfeel the grief from three missing existences.

On May 2, 2018 – the ninth anniversary of the accident – I was back living in Toowoomba for the first time since high school, trying to finish a memoir about the crash. I hadn’t seen Nick since a 21st birthday party in 2013, and we hadn’t messaged each other since 2015. “Hey mate, thinking of you today,” I wrote to break the ice after so much silence. “How’s life been? We should catch up.”

We arranged to meet for lunch one Saturday afternoon. I punched his address into Google Maps. He lived 100 metres from my new share house. Nick answered the door with paint in his crooked eyebrows. Now a father of two, he’d put on some weight since high school. “Nick,” I said.

“Hey, Lechtor,” he said. “You look good, man. How are ya?”

I had grey hair and the unintentional suntan of a marathon runner. “I live around the corner from here,” I said. We shook hands for the second time in quick succession, chuckling at the odds, two grown men who knew everything and nothing about each other. “Well, bloody hell,” he said. “It’s a small world, isn’t it?”

“Small world!”

We drove to a cafe, where I told Nick that I was writing a book about the accident. “Why?” he asked. Not angry or defensive, just intrigued. I told him that I wanted to raise awareness about mental health. “You’re still depressed?” he asked, gobsmacked, mentally comparing that disclosure with Facebook images of me grinning at black-tie balls in Brisbane. “Well, yeah,” I said. “I see a psychologist once a month.”

I paid for lunch and suggested a stroll around Queens Park. My honesty was contagious. Nick filled in the gaps since high school: he’d become hooked on pot and video games, blowing out to 110 kilograms, so anxious and ashamed that he didn’t make it outside for his 21st birthday. The quickest fix for the endless cycle of lethargy and self-loathing had been crystal meth. “Ice stopped me from dreaming about death,” he said.

Nick kept trying to quit meth cold turkey. But the problem with getting in so deep was that he didn’t have any friends left who weren’t addicts or dealers. Relapse was accompanied by the adrenalin rush of belonging.

“It’s scary,” he said. “These people were scared of me.”

I lifted the handbrake outside Nick’s house. He asked for my advice.

“Mate, I’m pretty sure you’ve got depression,” I said.

“Do you think so?”

“If it walks like a duck. And quacks like a duck …”

“But I don’t want to go on those drugs, man.”

I outlined my almost decade-long regime of therapy and antidepressants. “They don’t fix all my problems,” I said. “But they give me the ability to address them.”

I left Toowoomba and didn’t see Nick for another 18 months. He later told me that he’d started antidepressants a few days after our lunch. “Thanks mate,” he messaged me. “Best thing I’ve ever done.”

In May 2019, I was living back in Brisbane. For the 10th anniversary of the accident, I organised dinner with Tim. He owned a home in the suburbs with a pool and had travelled to more than 20 countries on cruise ships. He went to Broncos games on Friday nights and a Pentecostal church on Sundays.

Dinner was at a bar on the Brisbane River. I invited Frida, who’d briefly been my girlfriend after the accident, and Big Red, one of mine and Tim’s oldest mates. I was writing essays about climate change for The Monthly. Big Red was working on a gas mine out west. Frida was a staffer for the Labor Party, taking the career path my father had longed for for me. She was better at it than I would’ve been, more attracted to policy work than ego fulfilment.

“I always thought you’d be the prime minister,” Big Red said to me.

“I wished,” I said.

“His skin was too thin for politics,” said Frida.

My wistfulness was nipped in the bud by Tim’s arrival. Laughter followed him from the entrance to the dinner table, intensifying when he spied Big Red across the room. Tim still couldn’t walk or talk, but he had the same bright blue eyes, wide smile and mouthful of straight teeth. A carer pushed his wheelchair to the table before decamping to get his client a Corona and lime.

“You look so handsome, Tim,” said Frida, kissing him on the cheek. Tim pulled me into a bear hug that I couldn’t break free from, proving once and for all who remained the alpha male. You can never be cured of who you are.

“Ring the bell!” I shouted. “I submit!”

Big Red had given his first child – a ginger-haired behemoth like him – the middle name of Timothy. Now Tim tried to physically overpower the biggest person in the room, as he had me. “I’m sick of your shit, Timmy,” said Big Red, rolling his sleeves up.

Tim signalled for another round while listening intently. He frowned when the subject matter grew more serious, and cracked up at the punchlines. Tim had six nieces and nephews. I had 12 of them. We were both the funny uncle: he was funny ha-ha, and I was a bit funny sometimes. Would I have been so forgiving if it were me in the wheelchair and him living freely?

But Tim didn’t want pity. All he needed was for me to spin him a yarn. “Remember all the rumours that you two clowns started about me?” said Big Red. “I still get asked by people if they were true.” And so the yarning started.
Sitting at the dinner table with three of my oldest friends, I was winded by the blissful follies of youth, happy to ignore the holy disappointments of adulthood. “This has been the best night in forever,” said Frida. Tim yawned through the laughter. His carer called it a night. We did a farewell round of handshakes and hugs.

The great genius and insanity of human beings is our ability to laugh in the wake of disaster. To fall in love after heartbreak. To keep breathing when the people we need could disappear at any given moment.

We were on a hiding to nothingness, and yet I never stopped searching for the right person or the perfect words. The great genius and insanity of human beings is our ability to laugh in the wake of disaster. To fall in love after heartbreak. To keep breathing when the people we need could disappear at any given moment. To make art from the unspeakable grief when they did.

At the start of 2020, Nick, Dom and I met for lunch in Toowoomba, just around the corner from Downlands. It was the first time the three of us had been together since we were 17. After a relapse in 2019, Nick was fresh out of rehab and had been clean for 86 days.

“It’s a mantra: om mani padme hum,” he said, explaining the seven chakras of Hinduism and the new tattoo of a kundalini serpent twisting along his tanned forearm. He was 20 kilograms lighter than when we’d met at Queens Park. “Rehab’s just a bunch of blokes talking about their demons,” he said.

Dom was a born-again communist with a blond pony-tail and twin nose piercings. He showed Nick the tattoo on his skinny wrist of a Dreamtime rain spirit, passed onto him by an Aboriginal mate named Sam. He wore a hammer-and-sickle T-shirt given to him by a Vietnamese violinist at an ashram in southern India, where for two years he’d consumed magic mushrooms and learnt the language of self-compassion. “I stopped ignoring what happened,” he said. “And I accepted it.”

Nick turned to me. “You need to carve out some inner peace,” he said.

“That’s why I went to India and Iran,” added Dom. “Australians are so uncomfortable talking about pain. Other cultures confront it. We just go to the pub and get smashed together. How is that the definition of toughness?”

“Australians are so uncomfortable talking about pain. Other cultures confront it. We just go to the pub and get smashed together. How is that the definition of toughness?”

Nick shadowboxed to prove he’d got the knack back, then confessed to a recurring nightmare he had, about getting bathed in hospital by strangers. “I feel like I woke up from the coma yesterday. Nurses wiping my arse for me. It was so embarrassing. But I couldn’t tell anyone that.”

Now a vegan, Dom cooked tofu and pineapple on the barbecue before flipping them onto focaccias with avocado, spinach and kimchi. At the tipping point of the Great Dividing Range, we sat chewing the fat about depression and post-traumatic stress disorder without breaking eye contact. “I finally forgave myself,” said Dom.

Nick offered us cigarettes. I’d stopped smoking when I became a runner, but lit one up for old time’s sake. My lungs didn’t digest the relapse with dignity.

I coughed harder than the first night Nick and I did shots of Dad’s Johnnie Walker and fleeced some Longbeach Menthols from my snoring mum’s bedside drawer, 13-year-olds determined to become grown men overnight.

“I’ve missed you guys,” he said.

Nick took a call from the mother of his children, a subtle reminder that he had much more on his plate than either of us. He hugged Dom and me.

“Does writing about it help?” asked Nick.

“Not exactly,” I said. “I’ll be psyched to finish the book, though.”

“Why?” asked Dom. “So you can wake people up?”

“No,” I said. “So I can go back to sleep.”

“I don’t think it’s going anywhere, bro,” said Nick.

There is no closure. Trauma doesn’t allow for a heartwarming moment of redemption, when the main characters come of age and find a cure for the pangs of anguish. We keep persisting anyway, epic vessels of emotion, less of a danger to ourselves and more of an open secret to those around us.

This is an edited extract from Lech Blaine’s Car Crash: A Memoir (Black Inc, $33), out now. For upcoming talks about the book, see lechblaine.com/events.

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